Are you sabotaging your own self-improvement?

Is there SOMETHING you are trying to acquire or something you’re trying to do that you think will better your life? Maybe you’re trying to get your body to look a certain way, or you’re looking for the perfect job, or maybe there’s something you want to buy. Check out this article about why the way you’re thinking about this could actually be preventing you from living a better life and what you can do, instead. It’s written primarily for men, but the general wisdom is not restricted by gender.

Here’s a quote to draw you in:

By charging an external object with your future happiness, you’ve essentially set yourself up for future disappointment.

Here’s the link: No More Magic Feathers: The Secret To Finding Real Self-Improvement – Paging Dr. NerdLove

While you’re there, check out the rest of the site, especially if you feel nerdy, socially awkward, or if you’re interested in improving your experiences with dating and romantic relationships.

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